What a volatile thing it is that people seek
How unpredictable,
Temperamental,
Bipolar.
Love.
What’s so great about love?
All your hormones run high, imbalancing all activities but one
Your violent tendencies surface, misaligning thoughts, inducing insecurity, infusing paranoia…
Like a guitar that strums right but is tuned wrong.
Something’s off about love. It’s too coincidental
-too common–
To be taken at face value.
Love is so differently defined,
And so much is expected out of it.
What’s so great about love?
Love is just a romanticised word
For biological needs that are socially legitimised.
And its particular aura
Is here in my mind
Because it’s been fed like code.
“Love is transcendence.
Love is indescribable.
Love is unique.
Love is pain.
Love is luck.”
When perhaps
None of these are true.
Does love around you look like it’s unique?
Does love feel like it’s an atypical permutation
Of the thousands of love-related things
I see on TV?
Or is it not unique even in that respect?
Are loves even unique among themselves,
Or do after some point
They all start to merge?
It’s a bleak picture.
I’m striving for something that I think will give me happiness,
But I’m far from it.
Love is a photoshopped picture –
Enhaced, saturated, increased contrast –
So much so that I’ve stopped recognizing it in the way it naturally is.
So much so that I’ve stopped appreciating it.
So attuned to Grand Gestures of Love, I missed the little simple things.
I convinced myself that I’d only be happy with love,
But love hurt.
My vision was too tunnelled to fix my misconception,
So I just became a masochist.
I love (?) this!
You outdo yourself. This is great, and as usual, I don’t have words for it. Or for you.
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So deep….so amazing….thanks for sharing 🙂
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Your words keep me reading, M. Makes me think. I like that. Very much. I can only say this though.. meet the one.. and you’ll be able to answer all of your questions and ruminations in one short, encompassing sentence. I shall hope that you will become more than lucky enough to know the answers. 🙏 Fabulous blog.. R.
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Wow… thank you so much. This means a lot to me. Yes, someday maybe, if I find an answer to all these questions, I’ll definitely attempt writing about it. Your feedback means so much, R. Thank you, once more. ^_^
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I think we’ve all been inside that bubble, M. Sometimes, however, if we’re stupidly lucky enough.. we get to feel what’s most amazing about life, outside the wall. Remain open. Believe. And never ‘expect’.. (Confucious say is mother of all disappointment!) 😂 Warm wishes.. R.
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